tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11199221663659821.post5125596733993770133..comments2023-08-19T19:20:13.845-07:00Comments on Mom trying to Detach With Love: Trying to have Patience!The neverending battle of child's opiate addictionhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04138779247145438268noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11199221663659821.post-67588570880484672672010-06-02T13:38:37.424-07:002010-06-02T13:38:37.424-07:00I feel like I take one step forward and two steps ...I feel like I take one step forward and two steps back...I had no idea how manipulative I could be. Growth is good and I am determined to get me some of that real soon.A Mom' Serious Blunderhttp://www.madyson007.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11199221663659821.post-82145274515662440022010-06-02T13:29:47.526-07:002010-06-02T13:29:47.526-07:00Patience is not one of my virtues at least not wit...Patience is not one of my virtues at least not with myself especially. Great post.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11199221663659821.post-83983907452878952602010-06-02T06:24:57.713-07:002010-06-02T06:24:57.713-07:00I am proud of you, too. You really have grown a lo...I am proud of you, too. You really have grown a lot.<br /><br />When my sponsor had surgery recently, she went through a bit of a depression. It's not uncommon. I'm not sure why that happens, but it does pass.<br /><br />I'm here for you whenever you need to reach out. Meanwhile, I'll keep you in my prayers. Love and hugs.Kathy M.https://www.blogger.com/profile/17266701533758183054noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11199221663659821.post-52866400273621852832010-06-02T05:38:11.800-07:002010-06-02T05:38:11.800-07:00Learning to have patience and to trust in the heal...Learning to have patience and to trust in the healing process is one of the most difficult things for us "fixers" and "doers" to get. But if you hang in there the rewards are worth it! (Not that I've been there yet myself but I've heard about it! lol) Be proud of yourself, you are doing really well and so is he.<br />CarolynAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11199221663659821.post-33834352201702239762010-06-01T20:27:27.856-07:002010-06-01T20:27:27.856-07:00Glad that you are feeling okay post surgery. And t...Glad that you are feeling okay post surgery. And that your son is doing well. Stay in the day. It has been a difficult one for me but I am dealing with it.Sydhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05642843245634635843noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11199221663659821.post-18021245181581672382010-06-01T19:18:24.515-07:002010-06-01T19:18:24.515-07:00You are right - you are suppose to feel yucky! It...You are right - you are suppose to feel yucky! Its all part of the process to get you feeling good again, which I am praying happens quickly.<br /><br />Good for you for letting Z make some decisions and good for him for 39 days! I forgot he was on Prop. 36. I don't want to project, but does he know that if he gets arrested again his option will be "drug court"? I think that's how it is in all of CA. Drug Court is very serious business that could take years to complete. Keven chose jail time over Drug Court but then got "rescued" by a Public Defender that realized that he qualified for Recovery Court.Bar L.https://www.blogger.com/profile/11100008292699584336noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11199221663659821.post-5370972360202352782010-06-01T18:01:50.320-07:002010-06-01T18:01:50.320-07:00Also thank you so much for your very kind comment ...Also thank you so much for your very kind comment on my blog...I know that you know. I could just hear it in your comment.Annettehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18326425173333184401noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11199221663659821.post-2584889192485353112010-06-01T17:58:41.905-07:002010-06-01T17:58:41.905-07:00Wow Renee, what a great post. 39 days is a fantast...Wow Renee, what a great post. 39 days is a fantastic beginning for your Love. That he is navigating his life on his own, taking responsibility for himself and not relying on you or anyone else, is huge! Savor that for today! <br /><br />I know all of those fears that nudge us in the back of the head...ugh. I hate that part. But all you can do is live in today, focus on gratitude, and trust that your HP has a hold of your son and is working in his life. ((HUG)) Thanks for sharing.Annettehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18326425173333184401noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11199221663659821.post-60539193448036573702010-06-01T16:08:02.874-07:002010-06-01T16:08:02.874-07:00Just hang in there. I cannot tell you it gets bett...Just hang in there. I cannot tell you it gets better, because it doesn't very often. What I can tell you is that WE get better at handling it.<br /><br />{{hugs}}}Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03699870975776139552noreply@blogger.com